My Mother (75) was finally diagnosed approx 3 yrs ago following definitive tests and scans. My Father (81) is ‘covering’ for her. After telling us she had ‘a bit of Alzheimers’ now says he never said that and I am lying. Clearly she has the disease which I believe she has had for circa 12 yrs.
I’ve weitten to her GP and received no response.
They have told local adult social care they are fine and need no support so they are left.
I believe they should not be paying Council Tax and be claiming carers allowance but I can do nothing due to this denial.
My Father has stayed he would rather kill them both than go into care and I believe he would as he had found a couple in similar circumstances who had done the same.
I am an only child and do t k ow where to start.
Any suggestions where I start please?
Thank you in anticipation.
I’ve weitten to her GP and received no response.
They have told local adult social care they are fine and need no support so they are left.
I believe they should not be paying Council Tax and be claiming carers allowance but I can do nothing due to this denial.
My Father has stayed he would rather kill them both than go into care and I believe he would as he had found a couple in similar circumstances who had done the same.
I am an only child and do t k ow where to start.
Any suggestions where I start please?
Thank you in anticipation.