Well we have made it to a year since mum has moved in with us and her horrible illness. Have made it with the help of a wonderful husband, tolerant kids who switch off, social service carers daycare and respite. We have had high and lows. Roll on respite next week as we are having a very bad evening with her always happens on a Tuesday and Friday when she comes back from daycare confused, tired, irritable and wanting to go back to her own home. Refusing to take her tablets and goto bed. Friday she is off for respite and when she does Im going to have a few glasses to celebrate a year and see if we can get through another year one day at a time.