Today my FIL has passed away after a very short illness, a chest infection that he succumbed to.
As some of you know we had been trying to move him to a care home closer to us but were having problems with my BIL who was refusing to let him move.
As a result of the lack of visits Dad deteriorated far quicker thah he would have done if he had been closer to family who cared.
I feel very angry as well as deeply upset that he has gone so soon, we really wanted to have some quality time with him and now he's gone.
The help and advice we received from members of this forum in our quest to move him helped us enormously and now we need to come to terms with this cruel blow.
I have found a wonderful poem on the forum entitled 'Now I have gone' and it says everything Dad would have liked to say were he able, so thankyou AZ forum again
with deep sadness
Barby
As some of you know we had been trying to move him to a care home closer to us but were having problems with my BIL who was refusing to let him move.
As a result of the lack of visits Dad deteriorated far quicker thah he would have done if he had been closer to family who cared.
I feel very angry as well as deeply upset that he has gone so soon, we really wanted to have some quality time with him and now he's gone.
The help and advice we received from members of this forum in our quest to move him helped us enormously and now we need to come to terms with this cruel blow.
I have found a wonderful poem on the forum entitled 'Now I have gone' and it says everything Dad would have liked to say were he able, so thankyou AZ forum again
with deep sadness
Barby