Good morning, I’m new to the forum and hoped someone might have some advice. My mother in law has vascular dementia and is becoming increasingly confused. She is in denial about her diagnosis and believes there is nothing wrong. She has started to wander at all times of the day, looking for her mum and sister (no longer around). We live close by and she is regularly banging on our door in distress. Last night she woke us at 10.30pm, asking why my husband was ignoring her (he isn’t), he had not answered her 5 missed calls as he has to be up for work at 3.30am, we were in bed, she then came to our house, banging the door and woke us and our 9 year old son who has to be up for school. She frequently comes down to our house (often 6 times a day), she looks through the windows and letterbox. I’ve no idea what to do, but, we are at the end of our tether and can’t carry on like this.