Hi
There are so many people feeling the same way. Reasoning with Dad , no chance , he keeps saying "sitting here right now there is nothing wrong with me" That is when he is on a good day. Our weekend was pretty naff as well. Second week that my dad and sibling have had words between them well when I say that it is Dad being pretty obnoxious although he cannot help it alot of the time but it is still stressful for everyone else. I went to see my OH parents same age as Dad and the contrast is so obvious. It is a social visit with them but my Dad any visit is care, house, sorting his post out, putting his washing away, making his lunch or tea, cleaning, sorting medication. His unreliable cleaner is off sick again so I took the morning off to tidy up, clean, put his bins out, change his bed etc etc. Yes we are doing it ourselves but not sure for how much longer. We don't have a a diagnosis either, still going through the motions Sometimes your head just spins as to what to do... You must seek help xx (she says trying to remember to take her own advice)