It has taken nearly 2.5 years for my Mum to settle in her carehome and she still wants to go home. Yesterday my daughter and I visited her and we had a really lovely time and had lunch together. Mum fell asleep after lunch at the table and we asked her if she wanted to lie down and we would leave. She became quite confused as thought we were out somewhere and that we were going to leave her stranded, she couldn't understand why we couldn't take her home and wondered how we all got there. The carehome manager helped by saying she would arrange for Mum to get home etc but she was angry with us and wouldn't say goodbye.
Sometimes I feel completely unprepared for these situations and wonder how I could have managed it better. Should we have quietly left when Mum was sleeping!
Sometimes I feel completely unprepared for these situations and wonder how I could have managed it better. Should we have quietly left when Mum was sleeping!