Hi im Tracey im a carer for my mum, shes 87 had a stroke 5 years ago which resulted in vascula dementia, she refuses carers goes nuts when i mention it, but she is phoning first thing and demanding her pills, there isnt a pill she takes that makes any difference, but she has got it in her head! We looked into homes but she would not last, she is managing ok at moment when we leave her, we are setting up camera"s, she keeps asking to go doctors to get pills so she can die, its no life for her or us is it? ive found myself googling life span, hoping that her misery will end and then i feel bad, she is ok in evenings she phones chat chat, no support out there but am finding life a bit stressful lol