Dear All,
I'm finally getting around to arranging the dreaded EPA.
Got a MAJOR problem .... in that brother in law (slimeball).... wants to the the one who counter signs the forms.
To be blunt... I can't stand the man....
He wants 'control' over what little money we have.
In the coming months we were planning on selling up , and moving to alternative accommodation.
He has 'offered' to 'invest' the money ( a little equity) for us....
He says that we must give him 'as much as we decide' for him to 'deal with'.
he apparently knows people that will help us.....
I DO NOT WANT THIS MAN TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH OUR FINANCES AT ALL.
EVER.
Can he force me to have him sign the forms?
In addition... he wants us to use a LAWYER that he knows
(ex neighbour). .. and NOT someone I have found through the CAB and Carers Service.
Can someone PLEASE explain what differences there might be in the quality of the LAWYER, when in comes to getting the EPA done?
We have NO spare cash to be paying a TOP NOTCH LAWYER
I 'know' one of the other LAWYERs in the FIRM that he wants to use is
A CROOK.... BIG TIME !!
One of those LAWYERS that can and will get you off anything.... For a fee of course.
So where does that leave me?
Can I go ahead and do the EPA, with family objecting?
Answers please...
A VERY SAD AND EMOTIONAL
DAISY....
I'm finally getting around to arranging the dreaded EPA.
Got a MAJOR problem .... in that brother in law (slimeball).... wants to the the one who counter signs the forms.
To be blunt... I can't stand the man....
He wants 'control' over what little money we have.
In the coming months we were planning on selling up , and moving to alternative accommodation.
He has 'offered' to 'invest' the money ( a little equity) for us....
He says that we must give him 'as much as we decide' for him to 'deal with'.
he apparently knows people that will help us.....
I DO NOT WANT THIS MAN TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH OUR FINANCES AT ALL.
EVER.
Can he force me to have him sign the forms?
In addition... he wants us to use a LAWYER that he knows
(ex neighbour). .. and NOT someone I have found through the CAB and Carers Service.
Can someone PLEASE explain what differences there might be in the quality of the LAWYER, when in comes to getting the EPA done?
We have NO spare cash to be paying a TOP NOTCH LAWYER
I 'know' one of the other LAWYERs in the FIRM that he wants to use is
A CROOK.... BIG TIME !!
One of those LAWYERS that can and will get you off anything.... For a fee of course.
So where does that leave me?
Can I go ahead and do the EPA, with family objecting?
Answers please...
A VERY SAD AND EMOTIONAL
DAISY....