During my visit with my husband today, the duty nurse and the CPN wanted to have a word with me.
They are concerned that my husband is not eating despite much coaxing. If they try to feed it to him, he gets angry. I had noticed that when I take him snacks he needs much persuasion to eat them whereas he would have eaten them with relish before.
The CPN thinks that it is due to his general deterioration and apart from suggesting lots of small snacks of high calorie food, said that there was nothing more anyone can do.
He has put on a considerable amount of weight over the last couple of years and eating has not been an issue up to now. He has plenty of reserve for the time being. But obviously this will not last.
It was upsetting and depressing news.
I have read on here of others having problems getting their loved ones to eat and so I am aware it is a common problem but how awful to know that the deterioration has reached this stage.
The good news is that I did manage to get him to eat some chocolate and a couple of biscuits whilst I was there but it was after two and a half hours of persuasion and some anger from him. And this was food he loves ( or did).
There probably aren't any answers but just needed to offload.
They are concerned that my husband is not eating despite much coaxing. If they try to feed it to him, he gets angry. I had noticed that when I take him snacks he needs much persuasion to eat them whereas he would have eaten them with relish before.
The CPN thinks that it is due to his general deterioration and apart from suggesting lots of small snacks of high calorie food, said that there was nothing more anyone can do.
He has put on a considerable amount of weight over the last couple of years and eating has not been an issue up to now. He has plenty of reserve for the time being. But obviously this will not last.
It was upsetting and depressing news.
I have read on here of others having problems getting their loved ones to eat and so I am aware it is a common problem but how awful to know that the deterioration has reached this stage.
The good news is that I did manage to get him to eat some chocolate and a couple of biscuits whilst I was there but it was after two and a half hours of persuasion and some anger from him. And this was food he loves ( or did).
There probably aren't any answers but just needed to offload.