I too am so very sorry that Lionel isn't able to respond to you at the moment. Let's hope that tomorrow brings a better day for both him and yourself.
Focus on your lovely holiday, what you will wear, things you want to do and see. By the way, if one of you snores get some of the wax earplugs from the chemist. They will soften up in your fingers and can then be molded to your ear space. They really are good. My SIL snores for England and we were together in the smallest cabin you could imagine. She didn't waken me up once! I'm sure you and Hazel will be painting the ship 'red' in your own quiet ways and you both certainly deserve for this to be truely a holiday to remember.
xxTinaT