Hi,
I'm a new user, and this is my first post. I want to say how reassuring I've found this forum to be and I'm glad I downloaded. There's a pic of Mother as my avatar.
She's just been admitted to a nursing home and we had our six week chat with staff where we said all was well.
It now transpires that a man has been going into my mother's room all hours of the day and night and climbing on her bed, exposing himself. Once he urinated in the corner of the room. She's bedridden at the moment.
Mother's been a widow for 25 years and not interested in sexual behaviour, she's 88. When I told staff about it they said "we'll shut her in her room". She has claustrophobia so this won't reassure her. What can I do about the male resident. There seems to be a 'boys will be boys' attitude - which has upset me.
I'm a new user, and this is my first post. I want to say how reassuring I've found this forum to be and I'm glad I downloaded. There's a pic of Mother as my avatar.
She's just been admitted to a nursing home and we had our six week chat with staff where we said all was well.
It now transpires that a man has been going into my mother's room all hours of the day and night and climbing on her bed, exposing himself. Once he urinated in the corner of the room. She's bedridden at the moment.
Mother's been a widow for 25 years and not interested in sexual behaviour, she's 88. When I told staff about it they said "we'll shut her in her room". She has claustrophobia so this won't reassure her. What can I do about the male resident. There seems to be a 'boys will be boys' attitude - which has upset me.