Just wondering what others think please? My mum has been in a care home for around four months now. I chose this home because I believed mum would be encouraged to join in activities ( downstairs).
I have found out now that there are no activities at all upstairs in the dementia unit where mum is.
My last three visits have found her in her room crying. She always has her clothes everywhere and "ready to come home".
I asked today at reception for an update from the recent GP visit which I requested last week about her ear pain only to find out that no GP had called as promised. No record of my concerns. No record of any update on mum.
I was met with hostility from reception staff. As though I was bothering them for asking.
My mum's short term memory is non existent. Today I visited her in between two separate hospital appointments for me. She unwrapped some biscuits from her bedside drawer that she had placed there in tissue four times in two minutes, each time being surprised at what she found.
I feel this home is not caring and I don't know what to do. My complaints seem to be met with a blank. I am looking to move mum but worried each day at what I find. Yet again today a water jug but no cup. Small things but this is happening again and again. There seems no communication between staff and after four months I am treated as a stranger by admin staff.
I have asked for notice period. No one bothered to get back to me. As usual. No response. Empty promises.
I asked for a meeting with manager. Again. No one called me back. I'm exhausted and want her out. But if I complain I fear they will give up on my mum completely.
Mum just wants to go home but she doesn't remember home at all.
I feel some carers are lovely there but they have such sporadic shifts there is no continuity at all. No hangovers. No nothing. I'm really concerned.
I have found out now that there are no activities at all upstairs in the dementia unit where mum is.
My last three visits have found her in her room crying. She always has her clothes everywhere and "ready to come home".
I asked today at reception for an update from the recent GP visit which I requested last week about her ear pain only to find out that no GP had called as promised. No record of my concerns. No record of any update on mum.
I was met with hostility from reception staff. As though I was bothering them for asking.
My mum's short term memory is non existent. Today I visited her in between two separate hospital appointments for me. She unwrapped some biscuits from her bedside drawer that she had placed there in tissue four times in two minutes, each time being surprised at what she found.
I feel this home is not caring and I don't know what to do. My complaints seem to be met with a blank. I am looking to move mum but worried each day at what I find. Yet again today a water jug but no cup. Small things but this is happening again and again. There seems no communication between staff and after four months I am treated as a stranger by admin staff.
I have asked for notice period. No one bothered to get back to me. As usual. No response. Empty promises.
I asked for a meeting with manager. Again. No one called me back. I'm exhausted and want her out. But if I complain I fear they will give up on my mum completely.
Mum just wants to go home but she doesn't remember home at all.
I feel some carers are lovely there but they have such sporadic shifts there is no continuity at all. No hangovers. No nothing. I'm really concerned.