Hi, all read every post and answer. On other people's issues and all seem relevant and heart felt to me.
I care for mum and recently she was admitted for excruciating pain. Anyway stay in hospital took its toll on mum and although out and in restbite didn't eat or drink n bounced back to hospital refusing meds n really confused.
They've assessed mum and found early dimentia n said she needs 24 hr care. I can't sleep, feel like my heart aches, cried when I looked at care homes ss has suggested. How do I stop myself wanting to take her home n try to prove them all wrong. She's always been my rock, how can I be a good daughter if it feels so bad. She's okay n chatty one minute then drifts off loosing her thread. She's overcome
so much losing her husband, losing a leg in recent yrs, nearly losing other one. Losing sight in her left eye but she keeps going. She's a tough cookie is my mum. How do I know what's best. Will it feel like the right thing or will I still feel like I've betrayed my step dads
dying promise to look after your mum.
I care for mum and recently she was admitted for excruciating pain. Anyway stay in hospital took its toll on mum and although out and in restbite didn't eat or drink n bounced back to hospital refusing meds n really confused.
They've assessed mum and found early dimentia n said she needs 24 hr care. I can't sleep, feel like my heart aches, cried when I looked at care homes ss has suggested. How do I stop myself wanting to take her home n try to prove them all wrong. She's always been my rock, how can I be a good daughter if it feels so bad. She's okay n chatty one minute then drifts off loosing her thread. She's overcome
so much losing her husband, losing a leg in recent yrs, nearly losing other one. Losing sight in her left eye but she keeps going. She's a tough cookie is my mum. How do I know what's best. Will it feel like the right thing or will I still feel like I've betrayed my step dads
dying promise to look after your mum.