Mum ended up in care at the start of this year, and I still can't get my head around it - it's been such hard for me to accept-i saw mum almost every day,phone calls 3/4 times to check on her daily ..I can't think that this is mums life now,it feels like she has gone from me...I constantly worry that she's OK and I know how unhappy she seems nowadays.....its certainly feels like a kind of grief