A new issue has arisen that I am struggling with. My wife was diagnosed 3 years ago at the age of 60. Recently she has taken to leaving the toilet and forgetting to clean her bum. This results in soiled underwear and her cleaning herself on towels or with a flannel. She then hides the soiled items amongst clean laundry which causes further soiling. My biggest issue is how to tackle this without putting her off using the toilet at all, and causing medical problems? Can anyone help please?