Just thinking today what can I do to make things better. My answer is nothing really, whatever I do hits negativity by O/H no matter how much I try to keep up beat about everything, smile when I don't want, hug and comfort him to make him feel wanted, the end result is the same. Its all my fault nothing is going change his mind about that maybe for an hour maybe if I'm lucky an evening otherwise nothing. What is the answer? If anyone knows please share, tired of it all and we are not even at the BAD stage other half can still feed himself, go toilet, shower, change clothes. Heaven knows how I am going to feel when he cannot do any of the above..........