I would just like to thank everyone for there support ,kind word's and there own observations,about my mum and her wanting to spend money ;and the worries we have had with mum.It's nice to know that others have been in the same boat and have been able to make me understand.After reading all my replies i can now see a light at the end off the tunnel. I have shared my mail with dad we seem to understand what mum is going through "thanks ever so much love gilly."...