How weird is this? But I’m thankful my OH finally has his diagnosis (of FTD) cos it helps me to cope. First of all, let me acknowledge that we’re still at the early stages, and what we’re experiencing is less severe, I know, than many others on this forum. Still, if I didn’t know what was causing him to refuse to leave the tv, and come through and eat his midday meal (he always has before) it would be much harder to look at it cooling on the plate beside me. I (think I) know what’s going on in his head: he thinks he’s asserting his independence. He no longer seems to feel the promptings of hunger: his standard response when he gets up halfway through the morning and I ask him if he’s going to have breakfast (he almost cetainly wouldn’t if I didn’t) is “If I must.” Without the diagnosis, I would be wondering whether to put his meal in the bin, or even - it has occurred to me - taking it through and tipping it over his head. As it is, with the diagnosis, I’m considering whether to take it through so he can eat it on his lap. Trouble is, his motor skills have deteriorated, and I can see it all ending up on the floor anyhow