Hi there,
Looking for any advice or guidance. Myself and my partner are 24 and have been together for 8 years. His mother is 55 and has just been diagnosed with dementia. She has declined cognitively over the past year or so and we put it down to menopause or other medical conditions until a neurologist diagnosed her today. Having been with my partner for a while I have seen the decline in his mum and we have all been in denial up until this point where it feels like everything has come crashing down. My partner has a brother (21) and sister (16). My partner is very open with his emotions to me but I struggle to answer when he says things such as “why my mum?” or “this is a death sentence”. Any advice on how to help him through this?? I’ve tried to encourage him to speak to his dad and siblings about his feelings as I know they will all be thinking and going through the same thing. Thankyou for any help.
Looking for any advice or guidance. Myself and my partner are 24 and have been together for 8 years. His mother is 55 and has just been diagnosed with dementia. She has declined cognitively over the past year or so and we put it down to menopause or other medical conditions until a neurologist diagnosed her today. Having been with my partner for a while I have seen the decline in his mum and we have all been in denial up until this point where it feels like everything has come crashing down. My partner has a brother (21) and sister (16). My partner is very open with his emotions to me but I struggle to answer when he says things such as “why my mum?” or “this is a death sentence”. Any advice on how to help him through this?? I’ve tried to encourage him to speak to his dad and siblings about his feelings as I know they will all be thinking and going through the same thing. Thankyou for any help.