Hi and welcome Vesnina. I am quite new to the group too but have found it really helpful, gives you a clearer picture of things. The other night was a one off, last night being one of the worst when she got out of bed and snapped the catheter. I have been to see a home not far and it was lovely all seemed really supportive I was surprised and comforted by the visit. I am going to try a week for now, I have some money through direct payments that was for a holiday for me, but I think I'll use it to give me a break and to see how mum copes with a little trip. Thank you for all your comments advice and support. love to all out there tonight x
That sounds very positive Yoyo. I hope you manage to get your mum to respite. I think I shall make enquiries along the same lines. I was supposed to go to a meeting today but as soon as the sitter came, mum had a panic attack at the thought of me leaving her, put on her coat and shoes and said she was going out and then sobbed and begged me not to go so I stayed. I am supposed to be going out on Friday to the hairdressers-no idea if I will be able to go. Hope you have a better night tonight. x