Well my Dad was taken into hospital and the ambulance took my Mum as well They were 97 and 93. Dad was kept in but mum didn't need to stay but the hospital would not let her come back her house with me as I live 200 miles away and the SW said it was a safeguarding issue and they would provide 12 days respite care. She gave me a list of CH that had places available. The one we chose was the 2nd one we looked at. We thought there was a posibility Dad wouldnt recover so only looking for respite care as we planned to move Mum nearer to us. We were taken with this one as when we walked up the path we could hear people laughing . And i thought this was a very good sign that the residents were in a happy environment. The Manager was very good the room was littie but ok and residents told us they were happy there and were sure my Mum would be too. The staff were all bright and cheerful . It has 5 good ratings. Dad died and we moved Mum to a CH nearer to us but she was wasn't having it and demanded to go back. She has been in the original care home 6 months now and is settling in .Thank you for your reply. How did you go about finding the right home? Did you look for a home that you knew could provide nursing as well as residential care?
In my situation you can only choose a CH that has a vacancy . Mum doesn't need nursing care. She has mild dementia .
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