I care for my best friend who is in a nursing home/dementia unit. I have noticed the last month or so, she does not speak hardly at all. I can visit with her for an hour, comment about something on TV, or the weather, etc, and I get no reaction or acknowledgment at all. There is simply no conversation or words spoken. She just stares straight ahead at the TV. Occasionally she may slightly turn her head and look in my direction, but then back to the TV.
Yesterday, we took her in her wheelchair out to the community room. She just stared at the floor. I was showing her magazines, making comments about pictures or recipes, just trying to engage her in some way. I noticed she was holding her arms and I asked if she was cold. She "barely" nodded, I would have missed it if I had not been looking right at her. I brought a blanket to her and wrapped around her.
The nurses mentioned it while I was there, that she is just not talking at all. An occasional word might slip out, usually I have to ask her to repeat it and she does not.
She is in late stage dementia. She has to have 100% care, completely incontinent, cannot get up by herself, cannot walk, not sure can even feed herself at this point, she seems to have no appetite.
Is this all part of the decline? It almost seems like she hears me, but cannot process her words to the point of actually speaking. If I am standing right in front of her bed, she may just stare at me. I just don't know what to think.
Thanks for any comments. Debbie
Yesterday, we took her in her wheelchair out to the community room. She just stared at the floor. I was showing her magazines, making comments about pictures or recipes, just trying to engage her in some way. I noticed she was holding her arms and I asked if she was cold. She "barely" nodded, I would have missed it if I had not been looking right at her. I brought a blanket to her and wrapped around her.
The nurses mentioned it while I was there, that she is just not talking at all. An occasional word might slip out, usually I have to ask her to repeat it and she does not.
She is in late stage dementia. She has to have 100% care, completely incontinent, cannot get up by herself, cannot walk, not sure can even feed herself at this point, she seems to have no appetite.
Is this all part of the decline? It almost seems like she hears me, but cannot process her words to the point of actually speaking. If I am standing right in front of her bed, she may just stare at me. I just don't know what to think.
Thanks for any comments. Debbie