I have always got on well with Edna and before I became her pa she used to asked dad if I was going everyday and was happy when he said yes, now if he says yes she moans at him says way is SHE coming for, when I get there for the first 15-20 mins she won't talk to me, if I don't try to talk to her she shouts at me saying I never talk to her, this makes me laugh as I chat to her for 5hrs a day to give dad a rest. She go's crazy if I do anything like put the washing out, we have tried to get her to do it with me but she shouts no you do it,I think its because she is not sure how to now.
The thing I have learnt over the last week is to not let her get to me, if she shouts at me I tell her the facts then switch off to her, how ever much she shouts back at me, it usally goes very quite I stay quite for a while then talk to her about something completely diferent and she is back to her lovely self. The only thing I am worried about is if she hits me as I have seen her go at my dad few time's, then I won't be able to take no notice
The thing I have learnt over the last week is to not let her get to me, if she shouts at me I tell her the facts then switch off to her, how ever much she shouts back at me, it usally goes very quite I stay quite for a while then talk to her about something completely diferent and she is back to her lovely self. The only thing I am worried about is if she hits me as I have seen her go at my dad few time's, then I won't be able to take no notice