Hello, this is my first post and I am hoping that someone out there has some advice for me.
My stepmother, who has full time live in care , won’t stop overfeeding her cats, she feeds them 6 or 7 times a day but will swear blind she only does it twice a day. I have suggested that the carer only gives her 2 sachets a day and hides the rest but she went bananas when I suggested this, she really believes she only feeds them twice a day! She also locks them inside if she thinks it is too cold or wet( there is a cat flap but she locks it)
The poor cats are suffering but she is obsessed with them , she never had children and she treats the cats like her children.
When the carer , or I try to reduce the amounts she feeds the cats , she becomes angry and aggressive, even hitting and kicking her carer.
The litter trays are constantly full and very smelly but she has to be cajoled into cleaning them ( she won’t let anyone else do it either)
I am at my wits end , I believe I should remove the cats and rehome them but am worried that she won’t understand they are gone and go wandering off to find them, or she will be so distressed that she will become even angrier with her carer. On the other hand I can’t bear that the cats are really suffering.
Any ideas?
My stepmother, who has full time live in care , won’t stop overfeeding her cats, she feeds them 6 or 7 times a day but will swear blind she only does it twice a day. I have suggested that the carer only gives her 2 sachets a day and hides the rest but she went bananas when I suggested this, she really believes she only feeds them twice a day! She also locks them inside if she thinks it is too cold or wet( there is a cat flap but she locks it)
The poor cats are suffering but she is obsessed with them , she never had children and she treats the cats like her children.
When the carer , or I try to reduce the amounts she feeds the cats , she becomes angry and aggressive, even hitting and kicking her carer.
The litter trays are constantly full and very smelly but she has to be cajoled into cleaning them ( she won’t let anyone else do it either)
I am at my wits end , I believe I should remove the cats and rehome them but am worried that she won’t understand they are gone and go wandering off to find them, or she will be so distressed that she will become even angrier with her carer. On the other hand I can’t bear that the cats are really suffering.
Any ideas?