So far my family member has refused a social care assessment despite their troubles with falls, heart, mobility, memory, vision and hearing.
Someone from the sensory team has been to see them after the most recent fall and told me that I and the person's son need to be more proactive in helping them! As everyone here knows, it's hard to help someone who doesn't realise or want to accept that they need help and can get quite irritable and upset. It's also hard to communicate with someone with dual sensory loss.
I'm hoping that the social care people will eventually get the consent that they need to do a social care assessment despite the deafness, sight issues and confusion. And that my family member will be able to complete the assessment. These days she gets quite fed up with my company and goes to sleep or says that she's hungry and wants to make her tea, in other words, it's time for me to leave!
I'd be grateful for suggestions for dealing with social care as they seem to expect me to help my family member with employing carers, cleaners etc though my family member will not accept help from me and doesn't want carers and cleaners!
Someone from the sensory team has been to see them after the most recent fall and told me that I and the person's son need to be more proactive in helping them! As everyone here knows, it's hard to help someone who doesn't realise or want to accept that they need help and can get quite irritable and upset. It's also hard to communicate with someone with dual sensory loss.
I'm hoping that the social care people will eventually get the consent that they need to do a social care assessment despite the deafness, sight issues and confusion. And that my family member will be able to complete the assessment. These days she gets quite fed up with my company and goes to sleep or says that she's hungry and wants to make her tea, in other words, it's time for me to leave!
I'd be grateful for suggestions for dealing with social care as they seem to expect me to help my family member with employing carers, cleaners etc though my family member will not accept help from me and doesn't want carers and cleaners!