Thank you for the advice everyone I wanted to reply earlier
@Beanie01 @Dimpsy i wanted to get Dads care sorted first & foremost, his best interests have always been the priority
There will be plenty of time later to follow up
@TNJJ no I didn’t know that you can self refer!! Slightly kicking myself here at the moment !
@silver'lantern thank you for letting me know about ex service personnel after Monday’s meeting I will look into that
@70smand I was hoping with proper assessments that the palliative team will be contacted; otherwise again I will be contacting them for advice. It’s another agency to add to the list. Thank you
@LizzieM as Dads TEP plan kicked in a few weeks ago now the hospital wouldn’t be able to treat him with medication, but I did consider doing this
@Palerider @Pete1 @Fishgirl @Bunpoots @Grahamstown @canary @anxious annie
@Starbright @Lirene @Grannie G @AliceA @LizzieM @Buttercup24 @Bikerbeth @daveyshadow @Lyd @Jenni_B & anyone else who has posted on this thread
Thank you your messages of support make all the difference I cannot express how much.
so today I shall be reading through Dads medical notes - sent via email by the surgery.
Dads care plan was given to us yesterday - it’s the same statement of needs when he went into the home 12 months ago.
The S/W supposedly doing the enquiry rang .... asked to confirm via email what was said- no email as of yet ! Same S/W rang as per usual from a mobile phone & had this conversation with OH!! I was with Dad .....
The county paying for the care package has now had issues raised by that county’s health authority... I have no idea how that happened but thank you to whoever you maybe, Also raised issues with the investigating authority about due process. Also the paying county’s health authority provided us with a contact number for the investigating county’s social services- a landline!! Hurrah!!
Still no word from the investigating County Council.
So my lovelies it’s another day of reading & collating information. somewhere in that I need to fit in work, dog walks, Dad, food shopping ( bit Mother Hubbard here!), family life & a bit of me time!!! Wish me luck
Ps
You might have noticed that housework etc isn’t on the list!!!!
Thank you again all the support has been the glue keeping me together
Really appreciate you all taking the timeout of your own hectic lives to post
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