I contacted a private sitter service the other day to try and get a few hours a week respite. The lady I spoke with was very nice and agreed to come to the house to discuss our needs. When I mentioned this to my husband a few days ago he was fine with it but now he is going off in one of his rages saying that he doesn't want strangers in the house and that there is nothing wrong with him .. I am at my wits end, any suggestions would be gratefully received !!