I care for my Mum at home with me, aged 90 with advanced vascular dementia. As if things aren't bad enough, my boyfriend has possibly got mouth cancer, having been back and forth to the dentist for over a year for extreme mouth pain and abcesses and has been put on ABs about 6 times. He finally had a tooth removed at Christmas but the pain and abcesses have continued. Last week the dentist referred him to hospital as he has lesions in his mouth. I obviously want to go with him to support him and the appointment is tomorrow. However I am sole carer to Mum and so have nobody to look after her, so will have to take her with us, as she's unable to be left alone. I'm not by any means being drawn into this mass hysteria re Corona Virus but must admit to being slightly concerned about taking Mum with us to the hospital, but have no choice unless we stay at home and my boyfriend attends alone. Thoughts please?