Hi, I’m new to the care home scene, and finding it a little upsetting. I feel very guilty for putting mom in a care home, but like most of you, the four carers a day, being alone every night, falling during the night and cooking plastics bags meant that a care home was the only choice. I am now faced with selling her home and emptying it of everything she holds dear to her. Should I take her to visit the house and her possessions one more time before selling? I feel bad not taking her but I am worried that it will upset her even more. She has been in hospital and the care home since October and has not said to me she wants to go home but she has told my aunt this. What should I do?