I called mother last night see who she was, got the usual not been anywhere not seen anyone. me- but the nurses come in? Mother- oh yes but they aren't friends. I had to ask one of the nurses to help me with the duvet cover I couldn't get it on. me- but the care agency are supposed to do that and take to laundrette. Mother- no I take to laundry (via her car journey with care agency) me- but the duvet cover? mother- I don't know, I have changed the sheets and covers hundred of time, (not in past year you haven't) but this time I was too tired. me- ok I will speak to care agency (well my sister will she is more in touch than me) mother- whatever. So she isn't really lying is she, she just lives in her own world?