My daughter lives in Australia and when she came home in summer we had this chat- to go or not to see her Nana. I said to my daughter I would support either way but was her choice. She choose not to go and many said she would regret it. Me? Im glad she didn't go. Her and her Nana were so so close. but what would going achieve? Her Nana would not have recognised her. She wouldn't have known she was there. I live everyday with the images of what her nana is now and I cry cause I cant see the lady she was. I would hate my daughter to be thousands of miles away and have those images in her head. I want my daughter to close her eyes and see the nana she loved and adored. I want my daughter to have wonderful memories. She didn't have to go to see her Nana to display her love- she has always loved her Nana and not going doesn't change that.
Its such a tough decision but 1 only your daughter can make. I really hope you and your wife can talk this through and make it up - This evil illness affects us in so many ways and we have to hold on to each other to stop it destroying us as well as the person with the illness. Thinking of you all x
Its such a tough decision but 1 only your daughter can make. I really hope you and your wife can talk this through and make it up - This evil illness affects us in so many ways and we have to hold on to each other to stop it destroying us as well as the person with the illness. Thinking of you all x