Two days ago I had a face to face appointment with a doctor at my surgery ( never seen this doctor before - think she was a locum). A couple of my physical ongoing health issues have been troubling me recently and I think they have been exacerbated by the stress of caring for my OH. When I walked in to the consulting room the doctor asked "What can I do for you?" and was absolutely astonished when I replied "I don`t know". When I outlined how I have been feeling I fully expected to be given a physical examination - at the very least have my BP taken, but no, nothing! I told the doctor that I felt my problems had been heightened due to the stress of coping with OH. So, what did the doctor do? She went online to search for local caring/dementia support and then forwarded 3 links to my mobile phone. Yes, the links should prove useful and for that I am grateful, but I was concerned that my physical health issues may prevent me caring for my OH as I need to and wish to in the immediate future. I left the surgery feeling that the doctor believed she had justified the consultation by sending me the links and had not taken onboard how I have been physically feeling. In fact I felt like I had been labelled a fuss pot and hastened out of the building! End result, I have prescribed for myself - take more "me time" once a day together with a glass of good scotch as necessary!