I have found you,i did a long message this morning on the blog entriesmi hope someone reads it and can give me some advice,thanks
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Can anybody help,i have been with mum seven years,this was when dad died I didntb want her to be on her own.i moved from London to lancs ,gave up my job my home,in the first five years it was good I could come and go as I wanted.going back to see my daughter and the kids and my friends.In the last 2 years mum got dementia,everything changed,i have lost my own life.my poor daughter has been left by her partner to bring up 3 young children and she is trying to become a social worker,i just want to be there for her but carnt she is finding it so hard.NOW,WHAT DO I DO.Do I put mum in a home,do I try to take her to my home,do I put her in a home in London,i just want to be there for my family and I miss them so much.my life is the one of a 85 year old ,I am living my mums life,dont get me wrong I love my mum but I have done my best 4 her for the last 7 years.i am torn between mum and my daughter and wonderful grandkids,
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