I had such a sad visit tonight to see my Mum. She is now no longer able to stand to get into a wheelchair. They are now using a lifting aid as they are worried about hurting her if they do it manually. I cried all the way home.
As a mother you watch all the milestones in your children. First smile, sleeping through the night, crawling, first words, steps, dry nappy. With dementia its all in reverse. I feel like I am now the parent and Mum is becoming a baby again.
Mum danced at the Christmas party and was independent in the care home with her tripod and room key. Now she is incontinent, cant walk, cant stand and has a memory span of 10 minutes. I need to help her hold her cup.
To everyone living and battling every day I send all of my love. The only comfort for me is that so many of you are also living with this and I am not alone. Knowing I can come here and be understood, no matter what, means everything.
Love
Quilty
As a mother you watch all the milestones in your children. First smile, sleeping through the night, crawling, first words, steps, dry nappy. With dementia its all in reverse. I feel like I am now the parent and Mum is becoming a baby again.
Mum danced at the Christmas party and was independent in the care home with her tripod and room key. Now she is incontinent, cant walk, cant stand and has a memory span of 10 minutes. I need to help her hold her cup.
To everyone living and battling every day I send all of my love. The only comfort for me is that so many of you are also living with this and I am not alone. Knowing I can come here and be understood, no matter what, means everything.
Love
Quilty