I have been very torn on the respite care for moving house next week. As said I need it to get organised and just to have a more stress free move. I spoke to the wonderful staff at the day care and they assured me it is the right thing to do. Less stress for me and him , a break for him, as I am not punishing him ! So yesterday I went to see the care home that has a space next week, starting Sunday. Really nice ,modern clean ,staff seem nice, lovely room ,good size ,en suite which he needs as he showers every day. He is fully fit and mobile, looks wonderful,and can be very loving,but this dementia has really moved a pace. So I have decided to take him on Sunday but am in mental tumoil over it , the home have said its best not to visit as it will be very unsettling as he is only therefore week.Can anyone give me any words of comfort please.