Friday 14th June 2019
I start shopping for the funeral and in the afternoon I decide to go and see my youngest brother and his partner in the studio so that I can spend time with them. Before going I receive a text from my eldest brother apologising for leaving but then saying that will be coming back on Sunday (Father's Day) and spending the night at the local Premier Travel Inn because they didn't feel welcome staying with me. I can't remember how I replied but I do remember telling him at one point that I didn't like being told 'Got to think about other people ' in front of the children over and over again.
I went to my youngest brother's studio and we then went to have a lovely dinner at the very same Premier Travel Inn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Dinner was lovely and we had a good time. I went home and my friend from Edinburgh who had been texting on the day that dad had been admitted hospital phoned to see how he was. She sent a Sympathy card and admitted that she had shed a few tears.
MaNaAk
PS: I should have that when dad passed away I didn't just grieve for him and my time as a carer but I grieved for mum as well and mum and dad as a carer. When mum was very ill it was very stressful and we had put with difficult behaviour from my eldest brother when he stayed with us again but dad and I had each other but this week I was on my own as my brothers had fallen out.
I start shopping for the funeral and in the afternoon I decide to go and see my youngest brother and his partner in the studio so that I can spend time with them. Before going I receive a text from my eldest brother apologising for leaving but then saying that will be coming back on Sunday (Father's Day) and spending the night at the local Premier Travel Inn because they didn't feel welcome staying with me. I can't remember how I replied but I do remember telling him at one point that I didn't like being told 'Got to think about other people ' in front of the children over and over again.
I went to my youngest brother's studio and we then went to have a lovely dinner at the very same Premier Travel Inn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Dinner was lovely and we had a good time. I went home and my friend from Edinburgh who had been texting on the day that dad had been admitted hospital phoned to see how he was. She sent a Sympathy card and admitted that she had shed a few tears.
MaNaAk
PS: I should have that when dad passed away I didn't just grieve for him and my time as a carer but I grieved for mum as well and mum and dad as a carer. When mum was very ill it was very stressful and we had put with difficult behaviour from my eldest brother when he stayed with us again but dad and I had each other but this week I was on my own as my brothers had fallen out.