relatives can be such hard work. My sister in law lives in USA and on her annual visit to the UK my MIL can often act normally for a few days and on her last visit my SIL could not understand how frazzled we were. This visit has been different -3 practice nurse appointments, one trip to hospital for blood tests, one specialist outpatient appointment and one GP appointment in a 10 day period. MIL smelly, agreed to bath then refused after SIL had got it ready. I know I shouldn't but REALLY feel like laughing.