Hello, this is my first post. I've successfully stuck my head in the sand not wanting to admit that life is going to change now that my husband has been diagnosed with Alzheimers. Mostly, we rub along ok, I increasingly do more and take on more responsibility but that's all part of it. My watch phrase is "It is what it is". Unfortunately, that's not working any more and I could do with some advice please. The latest issue is that he has 'mislaid' (moved and lost) the passwords for his online bank account. We've been relying on me moving money around online so I can take more of the burden of bills, etc, I always did it with his knowledge and it worked well. Now that the passwords have been lost I am despairing as the bills are piling up and I'm dipping even more into my savings when he has a healthy amount in his current account. He is happy to help pay for things but refuses to ask for help in changing the passwords etc. We visited his bank this week and although the lady at the counter was helpful, he refused her offer to change the passwords as 'I'll find them at home'. We ended up having a row in the bank which was deeply humiliating, for both of us. Has anyone got any advice as to how I can make him understand that I need his help and we need to sort out the bank account?