.....but recently my OH seems to spend a lot of his time taking his willy out and looking as though he is about to spend a penny. Fortunately I have so far managed to direct him towards the bathroom only to find that on most occasions he didn't really want to wee at all. Every time I do point it out to him and stop him he becomes very angry, as he always does if I have to guide or help him with anything. Any ideas?
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I am going back about five or six years ago? I had a wierd feeling I was peeing! I wasn't but I felt like I was! I needed to reassure my self I wasn't so I would look! Please I am sorry to be so graphic but I even pulled my foreskin back to make sure I was not dribbling in anyway!
My underpants smelt of wee! I had not leaked!
Or if I had it was only minor! This is not nice for me to admit but I started using the kitchen sink to wee! I don't know why the downstairs toilet was only a couple of meters away! I became frightened of making work for Sue (pre her own strokes and dementia) so I used to check I was dry to the extreme! My day to day probs a few years on come in that "when I need to go I do imeadiately! So any port in a storm! Because I/we live in country I now tell Sue I going to water geraniums! We have not got any! I am at a point in my demtia where I can relate this to you today! Sue had major stroke issues in 2013 compared to mine she us major issue! Somehow the shock of Sue being so bad has regaled back my own status! I can't explain it!
Sue has given me her permission to share with you this she wares protection full 24/7 because she can't controll/predict when she needs to go! But like me its an emergency! I can walk normal but Sue is slower due to left side paralysis!
Both of us have a major aversion to the smell of wee! She must be sick of me asking her are you dry and clean? I know my loverly girl has leaked she says no! Many times this is not so!
I am in unusual position as sufferer and carer!
Also Sues condition has shocked me into what I call remission!
Please note this is an embarising subject for both of us!
Despite full protection I have a lot if laundry to do in the morning! I have a major thing now about the smell of wee! It could be another form of dementia coming out in me!
We get round this by having a shower together!
Lucky man John! Sue says he should be so lucky!?!?