This is my first posting.
I am from America. This is the only forum I have found that seems to be helpful.
My mother has dementia. May of last year she was fine. Living on her own. Then it went downhill.
I moved her into a memory care unit last December. During COVID restrictions, I did not see her for 3 months.
Thankfully, I can visit now. I have had my first jab. Next week my second so I can stop wearing the mask.
Every visit is with a different version of my mother. Some of her same delusions exist. They started in August.
I had my first visit 2 weeks ago where she did not know who I was.
The doctors and staff at her home say there is no way of knowing what is going to happen. But I keep looking for signs of how long this will last. But like attempting to read tea leaves, I do not know.
I just want to know how long. She should have had peace at the end. She had such a hard life. She is scared and I am scared.
I am from America. This is the only forum I have found that seems to be helpful.
My mother has dementia. May of last year she was fine. Living on her own. Then it went downhill.
I moved her into a memory care unit last December. During COVID restrictions, I did not see her for 3 months.
Thankfully, I can visit now. I have had my first jab. Next week my second so I can stop wearing the mask.
Every visit is with a different version of my mother. Some of her same delusions exist. They started in August.
I had my first visit 2 weeks ago where she did not know who I was.
The doctors and staff at her home say there is no way of knowing what is going to happen. But I keep looking for signs of how long this will last. But like attempting to read tea leaves, I do not know.
I just want to know how long. She should have had peace at the end. She had such a hard life. She is scared and I am scared.