Hi , I have, had 2 parents, my Dad was 89 and passed away about 5 weeks ago. My Dad and myself have been taking care of my Mom for almost 8 years now as she struggles with dementia. About 2 weeks before my dad passed my mom was hospitalized with a broken back . I can't even believe my dad and best friend is gone . My mom over the last 2 weeks occasionally asks where is dad , I usually say something like he couldn't come today and she will just forget about it , or does she.
I have had most people tell me not to tell her that her husband of 66 years is gone. Even my own doctor said that since she is in the late stages of this disease I should not say anything.
I honestly don't feel right not telling her. Has anyone gone through this same experience or maybe some advice. I learn so much from hearing from others going through the same thing.
I thank all of you any advice or ideas of what is best to do.
I have had most people tell me not to tell her that her husband of 66 years is gone. Even my own doctor said that since she is in the late stages of this disease I should not say anything.
I honestly don't feel right not telling her. Has anyone gone through this same experience or maybe some advice. I learn so much from hearing from others going through the same thing.
I thank all of you any advice or ideas of what is best to do.