I really want to give mum some quality of life. She is in carehome and juste wants to be home, make a cup of tea. Visits break mine and mum's heart. I really want to try taking her home for couple of hours, dad can say he needs to go back to hospital (as that is the story told to mum!). Could this work, I feel after 7months in carehome visits couldn't be any worse and I feel it's worth a try for mum. Am I totally wrong in my thoughts as I am too close to mum to think objectively? I know she will have to go back and that will obviously upset mum, but what else has she got, just wandering round a carehome and US visiting less and less as we dread the effect they have on mum and US.