We have invited Mother-in-law to move in with us in December as her current arrangements of a flat by my Sister--in-law are fast breaking down. She was so relieved as although she tries ( tho' is also 'trying'!) she is aware of no longer coping and getting things wrong. So many people though, especially those in the caring professions, keep telling me I'm mad to do it. Only one friend who has experience of in-laws is encouraging of the decision to keep her with the family and her familiar surroundings as long as possible. She stays with us at week-ends and recently for 2 weeks. We have some great laughs together still. Do other people doing this have positive experiences or will it all go pear-shaped once she is with us for good? I'll keep you posted!!