When my partner was moving into supported living, I set up a prepaid debit card for his pocket money.
I was to load it every Monday with a set sum for him to spend.
It seemed easy.
I texted him every morning telling him how much was available to spend.
But he consistently tried to spend more than was on the card - obviously not understanding/following what it was about.
Because of over 30 declined transactions the card has now been blocked by the issuer.
Has anyone got any ideas of an almost fool proof way of letting the poor chap have some pocket money?
HIs daughter lives nearby and I suggested paying money into her account for her to draw on and give to her dad each week - but she says she does not feel comfortable doing this. She has never acknowledged the extent of her father's dementia.
I was to load it every Monday with a set sum for him to spend.
It seemed easy.
I texted him every morning telling him how much was available to spend.
But he consistently tried to spend more than was on the card - obviously not understanding/following what it was about.
Because of over 30 declined transactions the card has now been blocked by the issuer.
Has anyone got any ideas of an almost fool proof way of letting the poor chap have some pocket money?
HIs daughter lives nearby and I suggested paying money into her account for her to draw on and give to her dad each week - but she says she does not feel comfortable doing this. She has never acknowledged the extent of her father's dementia.