selfish
I have posted before and read comments this morning I am totally selfish we have moved in with my fil and sold our home to make sure he didn't go into a home. if only I had known I would have been totally selfish and put him straight into a home. foolishly thinking that the lovely man from before wouldn't change as much and he would be forgetful and perhaps wander a bit.OMG I didn't realise the things that come with it. I cant put him in a home as the house is still in his name as the family thought his heart failure would get him before the dementia. I am now stuck with him and feel that our family is put on hold my little boy is 8 and definitely doesn't deserve the life we have. everyone feels sorry for the person with the illness but they are in a world of their own and we have all the **** and stress I would never advocate anyone looking after a person with dementia and everything that goes with it. I sound bitter I know but after 6 years of aggression, incontinence lack of sleep amongst other things iam entitled my child has only ever known this and after waiting 20 years for him its not what I had hoped for him
I have posted before and read comments this morning I am totally selfish we have moved in with my fil and sold our home to make sure he didn't go into a home. if only I had known I would have been totally selfish and put him straight into a home. foolishly thinking that the lovely man from before wouldn't change as much and he would be forgetful and perhaps wander a bit.OMG I didn't realise the things that come with it. I cant put him in a home as the house is still in his name as the family thought his heart failure would get him before the dementia. I am now stuck with him and feel that our family is put on hold my little boy is 8 and definitely doesn't deserve the life we have. everyone feels sorry for the person with the illness but they are in a world of their own and we have all the **** and stress I would never advocate anyone looking after a person with dementia and everything that goes with it. I sound bitter I know but after 6 years of aggression, incontinence lack of sleep amongst other things iam entitled my child has only ever known this and after waiting 20 years for him its not what I had hoped for him