Dad (90) was diagnosed with Alzheimers 18 months ago. He has 24 care now in his home, but I am getting constant phone calls and they are getting more abusive and aggressive. He keeps asking how to get home , but he is ringing me from his home phone! He also does not believe that the house he is in (and has lived in for the past45 years) is his home. He is thinking that he lives somewhere that he left 60 years ago, and that he owns his parents house. His parents died over 55 years ago.
Dad rings me over and over. 21 calls yesterday. I have been with him all morning, but I live an hour and a half away from him and he does not believe I ever go there (even though I do as regularly as I can). On average I get between 10 and 20 calls a day and I have stopped answering most of them now as it is only ever to rant at me.
Social Services are doing a Mental Capacity Assessment on Friday and will hopefully help me decide on a cate plan with dad's best interest at heart. My brother emigrated to Australia 15 years ago, and mum died of cancer 10 years ago, so dad has lived alone for the last 10 years. It is sad to see how much dad has rapidly declined in the last couple of months , and how nasty some of his comments to me are now.
Anyone got any tips on how to deal with the phone calls - I just don't even want to talk to him any more and I dread the phone ringing. It is causing me problems at work and at home. I just want to scream !!!!
Dad rings me over and over. 21 calls yesterday. I have been with him all morning, but I live an hour and a half away from him and he does not believe I ever go there (even though I do as regularly as I can). On average I get between 10 and 20 calls a day and I have stopped answering most of them now as it is only ever to rant at me.
Social Services are doing a Mental Capacity Assessment on Friday and will hopefully help me decide on a cate plan with dad's best interest at heart. My brother emigrated to Australia 15 years ago, and mum died of cancer 10 years ago, so dad has lived alone for the last 10 years. It is sad to see how much dad has rapidly declined in the last couple of months , and how nasty some of his comments to me are now.
Anyone got any tips on how to deal with the phone calls - I just don't even want to talk to him any more and I dread the phone ringing. It is causing me problems at work and at home. I just want to scream !!!!