Thinking of you at this sad timeMy beloved Husband passed away today just after 12.30. I was there-it was traumatic-but I hope the trauma was all mine and Pete knew nothing about it. RIP my darling-you will be in my heart forever. Thank you for loving me.
Lyn T
It is tragic that a PM was considered necessary in view of how ill Pete was and his numerous chest infections.
Dave's death wasn't expected at the time he died, despite his recent chest infection, and no PM was mentioned.
xxx
Thank you my TP friends
Saffie-when Pete's GP arrived after Pete's passing, she said there had to be a PM because he was under a DOLS. There are so many people on DOLS now the Coroners will be inundated.
I hope your days are as ok as possible.
Love
Lyn T XX
Now I understand the difference Lyn, so thank you. You've eliminated the slight question mark about Dave that had arisen.
I still think that it heaps added grief on to someone already suffering but can see that it might be unavoidable to have to satisfy legal requirements.
I'm left wondering what it ultimately resolves though apart from confirmation of the diagnosis when someone is obviously so very ill. This is what it has done for Pete of course so I hope you are no longer tormenting yourself with the "What ifs".
Please believe in yourself and your unstinting care and love for Pete.
empathy and love xxx