O my goodness me!
Since my last post was percieved by someone as being critical rather than helpful which was it's intention, I have tried to resist the lure of TP and, although I have read some posts, i have not contributed any, just to be on the safe side.
However, I find that I now am in need of some support from some of those members who have been aware of my past problems with CHC and it's refusal to allow funding for my husband so am, once again throwing myself back into the maelstrom of posting and just hoping I don't cause any misunderstanding.
Although, I did notify the CHC team of my intention to apply for both retrospective and ongoing CHC funding, it was because the final date was looming and after taking advice from an advisor from the AS appeal group. I was not at all sure that I would go forward with it and since I have heard nothing since the acknowledgement of the notification's receipt, I have let it lie.
About 10 minutes ago, the postman delivered a large envelope from the CCG advising me that they will be visiting Dave's nursing home on the 21st of August to complete the checklist!
I am in complete panic mode! I have to send my agreement to this Checklist assessment which of course I will now that the initial step has been taken by them rather than it being left up to me which I had come to conclude that it was. The letter says that I am welcome to attend but I have to let them know if I can only be there at a specific time and they will try to accomodate this. Well, I certainly don't want to be there waiting all day but am more than happy to give them a wide choice.
I really never thought this would happen even though I really know in my heart that I should have tried harder with this as Geum has tried to tell me on numerous occasions!
The background is that the first application, when Dave was in hospital, was rejected before Full assessment because, on the Checklist, the nurse hadn't provided sufficient evidence to satisfy the criteria for the level of need in which she had placed Dave. When offered a CHC advisor to help her complete the form, she - and the social worker then decided that he didn't warrant CHC funding after all. Unfortunately, she simply told me that it had been refused and it was only last year, as the deadline loomed that I re-read the CHC letter (which I'd had to write to request) and picked up on this point. Peviously, I had been concentrating on the fact that I was not allowed to complain.
I really don't know why the thought of CHC application fills me with dread but my stomach is in knots and always has been, every time it is mentioned. Maybe it has something to do with the state I was in at the time of the last application - coming to terms with Dave never coming home despite my frequent appeals for him to do so, looking for a nursing home, dealing with the aftermath of his amputation and all the added health problems that brought to his existing ones. I was also applying for Deputyship and selling our holiday chalet at this time . Whatever the reason, it is now in full ovderdrive! Well, it should be sorted out one way or another now whatever the outcome.
Thank you for reading this - its' a bit long and I apoloise for that. x
Since my last post was percieved by someone as being critical rather than helpful which was it's intention, I have tried to resist the lure of TP and, although I have read some posts, i have not contributed any, just to be on the safe side.
However, I find that I now am in need of some support from some of those members who have been aware of my past problems with CHC and it's refusal to allow funding for my husband so am, once again throwing myself back into the maelstrom of posting and just hoping I don't cause any misunderstanding.
Although, I did notify the CHC team of my intention to apply for both retrospective and ongoing CHC funding, it was because the final date was looming and after taking advice from an advisor from the AS appeal group. I was not at all sure that I would go forward with it and since I have heard nothing since the acknowledgement of the notification's receipt, I have let it lie.
About 10 minutes ago, the postman delivered a large envelope from the CCG advising me that they will be visiting Dave's nursing home on the 21st of August to complete the checklist!
I am in complete panic mode! I have to send my agreement to this Checklist assessment which of course I will now that the initial step has been taken by them rather than it being left up to me which I had come to conclude that it was. The letter says that I am welcome to attend but I have to let them know if I can only be there at a specific time and they will try to accomodate this. Well, I certainly don't want to be there waiting all day but am more than happy to give them a wide choice.
I really never thought this would happen even though I really know in my heart that I should have tried harder with this as Geum has tried to tell me on numerous occasions!
The background is that the first application, when Dave was in hospital, was rejected before Full assessment because, on the Checklist, the nurse hadn't provided sufficient evidence to satisfy the criteria for the level of need in which she had placed Dave. When offered a CHC advisor to help her complete the form, she - and the social worker then decided that he didn't warrant CHC funding after all. Unfortunately, she simply told me that it had been refused and it was only last year, as the deadline loomed that I re-read the CHC letter (which I'd had to write to request) and picked up on this point. Peviously, I had been concentrating on the fact that I was not allowed to complain.
I really don't know why the thought of CHC application fills me with dread but my stomach is in knots and always has been, every time it is mentioned. Maybe it has something to do with the state I was in at the time of the last application - coming to terms with Dave never coming home despite my frequent appeals for him to do so, looking for a nursing home, dealing with the aftermath of his amputation and all the added health problems that brought to his existing ones. I was also applying for Deputyship and selling our holiday chalet at this time . Whatever the reason, it is now in full ovderdrive! Well, it should be sorted out one way or another now whatever the outcome.
Thank you for reading this - its' a bit long and I apoloise for that. x
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