OH has now got a diagnosis of Alzheimer's, probably with Lewy Bodies, which could explain the delusions. Sometimes he's living in Oman, sometimes near Gordonstoun. at other times it's Lincolnshire. Meanwhile, I'm always in Dorset. He tells me he doesn't like living here. The advice from Admiral Nurses and others is not to argue about where we are - and I really am trying. However, we have boxes everywhere with things in them that he wants to take 'home'. An ex RAF officer, he's always been very confident and steadfast, so trying to distract him simply doesn't work. I've tried unpacking the boxes when he's not looking, but that, again, leads to an argument because I have to tell him the reason why - because we're home.
We've always had a peaceful relationship. Of course, we have had upsets and rows, but these have always been few and far between.
What on earth am I supposed to do now?
We've always had a peaceful relationship. Of course, we have had upsets and rows, but these have always been few and far between.
What on earth am I supposed to do now?