Hello, my husband is 66, he was diagnosed with young onset Alzheimer’s dementa 3 years ago having first been assessed 8 years earlier. In other words he’s been struggling with this horrendous disease for a long time. I’m his sole carer, although he does now attend a day centre for 2 days a week. This gives me a break and gives him a sense or purpose. He thinks he’s going to work. I’m overwhelmed with caring responsibilities - caring for him, my young grandchildren (youngest being 3 years old) and my mum whose also increasingly confused and disoriented. I’m also still trying to work as a self-employed school adviser and consultant (part time). It’s all too much. I’m finishing work altogether at the end of July, but I’m not state pension age yet. I’ve come on this forum for help and support, but if I’m honest I find it a bit clunky and difficult to navigate. Not sure it’s something I can persevere with as I just don’t have the time. My husband needs help with everything, from getting up in the morning, washing, dressing, teeth brushing, following instructions, knowing which his phone from his wallet, his name, my name, how to take his tablets etc etc. We’ve been married for 12 years, so we’ve had to have difficult conversations about sex and sleeping arrangements. There’s so much to think about when you’re relatively young and either have dementia or are caring for someone with dementia. I don’t have any questions for others on here. I’m just sounding off! 🙂